1.) I faded or left in 1996
2.) Never
3.) Personally only know of myself and brother so about 20 years. My mother and sister are only ones still in and they are not very active.
4.) Nope, and don't care. I haven't been to my congregation in twenty years. I don't exist in the JW world.
5.) Just treated as inactive if I run into anyone that knew me from my childhood
6.) Never was endangered of being DF. I just moved three hours north of my congregation as a teenager and stopped attending.
7.) 0, I haven't been to a memorial in like 15 years, and went to a few meetings and one assembly two years ago out of curiosity. A boring waste of time too lol. I've spent more time on this site in the last 20 years than at a kingdom hall.
8.) The org is completely powerless over my life with the exception of my mother. Talking to my mother about the many faults of the borg only depresses her. At times I have to remember not to be so critical of the watchtower around her.